Real studiesNo invented numbers
Named, dated sourcesNothing filled in to complete a table

This is one topic pulled out of our full Canadian sex statistics hub, kept on its own page so it's easier to find and cite directly. Every number below names its source and population — "Canadian adults," "Canadian university students," and "Canadians 40–59" are not interchangeable groups, and mixing them together produces misleading claims.

Married vs. unmarried

Source: Tina Fetner's Sex in Canada survey (2,303 Canadian adults ages 18–90, quota-matched to Canada by age, gender, region, language, and visible-minority status; surveyed 2018). Married Canadians reported having sex more often than unmarried Canadians — and reported orgasming slightly more often too, so the extra frequency didn't come at the expense of the sex itself, at least by this measure.

56%Married Canadians who had sex in the past month
35%Unmarried Canadians who had sex in the past month
78% vs. 66%Married vs. unmarried respondents who had an orgasm at their most recent encounter
86%Canadians in a sexual relationship who said they were happy with it
More than 1 in 3Canadians age 70+ who had partnered sex in the past month
Measure (most recent encounter unless noted)MarriedSingle
Had sex in the past month56%35%
Happy with their sex life87%79%
Had an orgasm78%66%
Received oral sex29%45%

Read the full guide: How Often Do Couples Actually Have Sex? →  ·  More on married sex specifically →

Committed relationships, fresh 2025 numbers

Source: Leger's January 2025 Canadian Sex Life Survey. A different, more recent survey than the Fetner data above — Leger's "committed relationship" includes married people plus other committed couples, so this isn't a married-couples stat specifically.

Sexual frequency, committed relationships%
Daily2%
A few times a week17%
About once a week15%
A few times a month14%
About once a month8%
Less than once a month13%
Never6%

For comparison, singles in the same survey reported far less frequent sex: 15% weekly or more, and 36% no sexual activity at all.

80%Orgasm during sexual activity, always or often (committed relationships)
37%Masturbation, always or often, same group
23%Sex toys, always or often, same group

Parents have more sex than you'd think

Source: Fetner, Sex in Canada. It cuts against the usual assumption: parents with a child under 18 at home reported more sex than non-parents, not less.

85%Parents with a child under 18 at home who reported an active, satisfying sex life
Parents > non-parentsParents reported more sex than people without kids, in the same survey

Read the full guide: Why Sex Drive Changes After Having Kids →

Why obligation shows up unevenly: a separate Canadian study of married/cohabiting midlife adults (40–59) asked why people had sex at their most recent encounter. 12.4% of married women cited obligation as one reason, versus 1.8% of married men — a real gender gap. A different motive, "doing something nice" for a partner, was reported at similar rates by both: 10.2% of women, 9.5% of men.

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